I have a friend who often tells me she’s doing well in the things that matter. For context purposes you need to know that she’s a recovering "control freak." I should know because I am as well.
Sometimes feeling the need for control is a good thing. Needing control is the first step in living a "short list" life. Eventually, you come to a point in life where you realize that you don’t have control. Life becomes very refreshing when you know that only a few things matter.
If you’re a control freak, God might be "tapping" you on the shoulder. He might be trying to get you to see life as it really is. Life is a short list…