The thought of mistakes can drive some people nuts-I'm one of them. Well, I used to be.
As time has moved on, I've have learned the art of, not only learning, but seeing mistakes as a tool to reinvent. It has served me well in the following ways:
- I see risk differently. If you are unwilling to make mistakes, then you'll avoid risk like a plague. Risk opens doors that are essential to a life well lived.
- I minimize my regrets. This is huge as I pass the half-way mark (or so I think) in life. I believe in trying and failing-succeeding too.
- I gain understanding about "the cost." There is always an exchange going on. Whether in career or life, your dealing with costs everyday. You need to understand what you're purchasing and what you're not.
- I found out who is truly for me. Funny how certain environments seem to produce more sycophants than others. I don't need those who are just hanging out.
- I need a better memory. Success can cause you to forget. This can be fatal-emotionally and mentally. The best way not to repeat a mistake is to have a good memory of what you went through.
- I don't want to fall prey to seduction. The idea that I can go back to something that doesn't fit and work, all in the name of "I'm different now." Seduction feels good when you hear the voice, but a cruel master when you give in.
- I want to experience the width of life, not just the length. A paraphrase of one my favorite quotes, but you can't do this without mistakes course-correcting you.
- I want to be more successful.
- I want my kids to learn these principles early.
- LEFT BLANK FOR YOU.