Fast Company has a post with some inspiring comments from film producer Brian Grazer on comfort zones. Mr. Grazer is largely responsible for the film below:
The land of comfort is not where you want to live.
Fast Company has a post with some inspiring comments from film producer Brian Grazer on comfort zones. Mr. Grazer is largely responsible for the film below:
The land of comfort is not where you want to live.
Have you ever walked by or near someone and heard a melody. Maybe it was Bill Evans or Joni Mitchell, but you heard it. I will confess this has happened to me many times with my wife. It’s happening right now as I listen to Pat Metheny’s Understanding. I see my wife’s face and my heart is warm. I think God gives us this wonderful gift if we let him.
I am convinced that we miss much in this life. How many melodies have I missed? Who was trying to play a symphony, when I was settling for a jingle?
See below for some inspiration…
What’s stopping you from hearing the melodies.
I have a new responsibility at Epic Living; I’m the Chief-Idea-Spreader. So this post is for those that believe the idea is what matters. It’s for those that are not hiding behind sales pitches. It’s for those that care about you and not yours (thank you Paul). It’s for those that have been told they’re nuts for trying. It’s for those that face the lonely road that is following their ideas.
Some questions for you if you fall into that group:
We’ve made some changes to the Epic Living website. You can view the main homepage here. Your thoughts are welcomed.
As we tackle bullet #9 from my post on How To Know If You’re a Corporate Slave), the issue of power in corporate America is one we’d all due well to pay attention to. I wrote a column a couple of weeks ago on this for BizJournals. Here is one excerpt for you to consider:
Power is not just for the CEO or CFO, it’s for all individuals in the organization-regardless of title. There is no doubt that handling power needs to treated just like handling a delicate piece of crystal. If you don’t do it well, much damage will be done. It’s insane how most organizations ignore it. Organizations that fail to address it will find that if their people aren’t handling power well, the power is handling them.
Watch out! If you’re using power to move people (especially a customer) or processes to fit some blind aim, you’re cementing a date for extinction. It won’t feel that way now because the numbers may be telling you that everything is fine. But misusing power never has a happy ending.
As you seek to use power the right way, consider Tom Peters’ post on "Top Fifty" "Have Yous." His insights remind me of some of the right uses of power. The list is lengthy, but worth reading.
Asher Adelman brings us a new feature on eBossWatch.com. It’s a contest based on stories around your boss-past or present. I love it!
The stories are sometimes funny and sometimes sad. Either way, I think you will relate.
Check out this story (Fired from a thankless job on Thanksgiving).
We’re now on bullet #8 from my post How To Know If You’re a Corporate Slave. When you think about compromising values what comes to your mind? A busy executive not willing to spend time with his family? Or the sales gun who can’t seem to get off the road? Both of those situations would fit, but I want to explore the over-time affect.
In my days in the corporate jungle, I had more than a few occasions where I let my career override some of my values. There were times where I would get the call from my wife asking me when I would be leaving the office. Feeling torn, I would cave and say I needed to stay a little longer. Then came the agonizing silence and a soft spoken "ok." Funny how things get eroded over time…small decision after small decision. At that time in my life I knew who was master and who was slave.
Many in corporate America think what they do is noble and for the good of all (economy, families, the American Dream, etc.). But in the reality I lived in it was about profit. Don’t get me wrong, profit is a good thing until greed takes over. We could have left a little on the table and still have been profitable. Funny how greed always seems to be crouching at the door. I regret not living free.
So what are you to do? You’re a corporate accountant or a sales engineer and you’ve been doing that for years. You can’t just give it up. Or can you? Consider the following as you contemplate living free:
Tim Sanders has a wonderful post on adding follow up time to your next meeting. His advice is refreshing and valuable. As many of you can attest to, meetings have the potential to suck the life out of you. Tim’s insights go a long way in helping fight that.
I thought I would provide you a small preview of my new book, Waking Up In Corporate America: Seven Secrets That Opened My Eyes. The preview is taken from Secret #6 and addresses the ignoring of reality (another sign of corporate slavedom):
THE KITE
Have you ever watched a kite flying in the middle of March? It conjures memories of childhood, doesn’t it? As wonderful as this sight can be, it also can be an object lesson in why we can find ourselves ignoring reality. That kite is only as good as the holder of the string. If the person holding the string lets go or forgets to pay attention, there can be consequences. The kite could drift away in the blue sky above, or there might be a tangled mess in a tree.
In life, reality is designed to be the string that keeps a limit on wonderful flight. Without it, we would be wanderers floating without direction or, worse, tangled in a mess. We are sort of alive like the dancing kite, yet we’re not fully there because we’re tethered by the string of reality. This causes sadness and a feeling of helplessness. Therefore, we ignore the string—the reality—because we prefer to believe we have the freedom to fly without limits.
There are a number of executives and non-executives alike who ignore reality daily. They foolishly place too much confidence in their knowledge. Whether they hold tight to their advanced degrees or some other validation of their brainpower, they may be traveling on a disastrous road. The newspapers are filled with high-profile stories about smart people doing dumb things.
Where do we turn when we can’t ignore reality? Do we proudly dig in our heels, as if to say, “I know what I’m doing?” Do we become fatalistic and convince ourselves that it really doesn’t matter?
These responses occur in phases—life phases. In youth, pride can get a grip. There is a certain arrogance that screams invincibility. In many cases, this type of attitude closes off the opportunity to learn. In our youth, we can fall into the trap of thinking that learning is only useful when it serves our own purposes. Humility is the fertile ground needed for learning to occur.
Guy Kawasaki gives us a good (as in thorough) review of Amazon’s new Kindle device. I haven’t purchased on yet, but it seems like a good addition for readers.