Some believe that corporate America is overrun by sycophants (those who feel the need to kiss ________). I’m not writing to measure that statistic, but I do want to write to those who are courageous enough to admit that they are part of the "sycophant club."
Why are you doing it? If you’re older than 40, has it worked as a strategy for you? Have written a book on the subject? Are teaching a course on how to be a better sycophant?
The ironic thing here is many don’t know they have the problem and a good number of others don’t care.
Here are some reasons why group #1 (ignorance) behaves the way they do:
- They live with and are driven by multiple fears.
- They’ve observed others (fellow sycophants) and blindly follow.
- No one of importance in their lives told them it was OK to be authentic.
- They work in an organization that rewards sycophant tendencies.
Now for group #2 (plotters):
- They worship the 21st century trinity (me, myself and I).
- See the fourth bullet above.
- They’re calloused beyond a habit.
- They’re hurting deeply and won’t let on.
If all of my insight nerves you, then maybe there is hope. Go find someone who will tell you the truth and loves people. You just might find an awakening…
What sycophant experiences have you had?