I read once where an entrepreneur spoke of having a greater fear of regret, than of failure. What a powerful statement! If some fears are healthy, then the fear of regret is a good one. Regret…that cold reality of something lost, that will never return.
If you find yourself questioning your vision or destiny, think about the regret factor. I am of the mind that if a person pursues their true vision/destiny, they will not fail. They will hurt, they will suffer loss, and thankfully they will be shaped by God (He is the author of destiny).
Here are a few tips on avoiding regret:
- Test your motivations…as they relate to your unique vision/destiny. Testing involves questions like "would I do this thing or action for free?"
- Ask your advisers/mentors to probe and ask tough questions. These people should not be impressed by you, should be willing to speak truth in love and really have your (your naked self) best interest at heart.
- Check out the Half Time site. The book is powerful…regardless of your faith.