The Opportunity Behind Disappointment

We all have faced the disappointment of losing a job, or being passed over for a promotion.  When (not if) these events happen we are left exposed and fearful.  If you know what I know, then you’ll know that these circumstances can refine you…just like gold.  Remember, refining means there will be fire, and fire is painful. 

The trick is, do we have a vision apart from the organization and circumstance.  If you don’t, you’re in for a wild ride of emotions.  If you do, then you should be able to see the event as directional in nature.  Like a field guide telling you to go around the ridge.  Understanding the directional aspect brings clarity and focus.  Get a vision!

Consider the following (if you’re encountering job related disappointment):

1.      Pray

2.      Don’t make any agreements based on what you feel (emotions will tell you to take the event personally).  Let go of the wheel and check your vision.

3.      Recognize that you’ve been designed, so trust the Designer to reveal the next steps.

4.      Seek input from trusted advisors.

5.      Great things are ahead, let them happen.