We need critical thinking more than ever. I, like you, have had my moments of not using critical thinking. Tough to admit and some of my most valuable lessons are found in that truth. Critical thinking is not only a skill that is vitally important, it is often ignored in our daily lives.
I sometimes think we avoid critical thinking because we don't want to be distrurbed. We don't want to be the odd one out or we had our heart set on something and the thought of not possessing makes us shrink. Ever been there?
Here's a few things to consider as you think about applying critical thinking:
- Please decide what you believe. Don't mean to be too strong here and this is important. It's easy to abdicate this to the crowd. In other words, I'll let him or her define my beliefs for me. It never works.
- Once you've established what you believe, then be willing to ask the tough questions. For example, is the person I'm placing my faith in live a life consistent with what I believe?
- Don't fall for the trap of "being liked." If you're craving this you really need to get this straight. Trust me, being liked is highly overrated.
- Find something bigger than yourself to serve. This forms deep roots and will keep you grounded.
- Recognize critical thinking as a tool you'll need when the players come around. If you don't have the skill to discern, they'll get you every time.
- Wait. That's right. When you feel rushed just wait. Rarely, are we in situations where a quick decision needs to be made.
- Make critical thinking a part of your entire life.